There are accepted matches in the astrology books that make for good romances. But often people in very contented relationships have supposedly mismatched signs. Why is this so?

In theory, only detached Aquarius and intense Scorpio get on with their own kind for completely opposite reasons. Arms-length Aquarius loves tolerant, cool Aquarius; and passionately possessive Scorpio simply must have a mate who understands their deep yearnings.

The truth of the matter is that six other Sun signs are also more likely to marry or commit to someone of their own sign: Aries, Taurus, Gemini, Virgo, Sagittarius and Capricorn.

The reason for this is that people are attracted to mates with similar interests, and they each have a real understanding where the other is coming from. Two Aries together will be noisy and competitive but will understand each other’s foibles. Two Taurus’s will be stubborn in arguments but share each other’s need for security and the good life. Two Geminis or two Virgos together will talk non-stop, so they’ll never be short of their greatest love, which is conversation. Two Sagittarius will travel through life egging each other on enthusiastically. Two Capricorns will scale the mountain peaks of professional and social reputation happily, hand in hand.

Other matches that are not supposed to work but in reality do are Taurus and Libra, since both share Venus as a ruler and both like an elegant social life style. You can add Libra, Capricorn and even Cancer into this category since they all like the good life. So any of these matches, while not perhaps matched at a soul level, will enjoy a good life together.

One surprising coupling that stays together for life is Gemini and Taurus -– the Twins quite flighty, and the Bull very rooted. The Taurus half presumably brings the anchoring, and needs to allow Gemini wander at will.

I’ve seen the worst match of all -- Aquarius and Scorpio – stay together through a long marriage without major problems. Admittedly, he is a more emotional Aquarius than the norm and she is a rather battened down Scorpio. The full-blown version of either sign certainly wouldn’t stay together, but signs, just like everything else in life, come in varying shades.

[Ed's Note: Looks like Leo and Pisces managed to stay out of this article; we leave it up to you to decide if that's a good sign or bad!]

Sometimes love just doesn’t come easy, but putting yourself in the right place at the right time can truly help. Check out this Sun sign guide and scope out the best location for you to meet the perfect mate!

Aries
You … hardheaded? Maybe just a little, but that’s why you look for love in the midst of action and excitement. Bungee jumping, bars or boxing matches are the perfect environments to fuel your Aries fire.

Taurus
Taurus, you sensual bull, you! Pleasure and comfort are what you’re looking for, so find your mate at a restaurant, an art opening or a spa. For the more organic Taurus, love can be found in the garden or your favorite hiking spot.

Gemini
You’re looking for a love who can talk, talk and then talk some more. Try spoken-word events, lectures, cocktail parties and schools. Given your own gift of gab, it shouldn’t be hard to get the conversation started.

Cancer
Nesting is number one for you, Cancer, so you’re looking for a love who knows how to make a home. Try antique shops, cooking classes and home-decorating events. Though you may be shy, your crab nature knows how to hold on when you find something good.

Leo
You want to find someone who appreciates the finer things in life, so your search for love will be luxurious indeed. Look for your mate at “A” list parties, celebrity events and the finest resorts.

Virgo
Could you be any more organic? Virgo, you’re looking for a mate who is green, healthy and fit. Try your local health food store, join an environmental group or volunteer at an eco-friendly organization.

Libra
Beauty is as beauty does, but for Libra, beauty is love. You’ll find the love you’re looking for at fashion shows, art openings and other venues where the beautiful people congregate.

Scorpio
Sex. That’s right Scorpio, for you the search for love has to do with the sensual. Of lesser concern is your interest in anything mysterious and deep, so look for your mate at underground (and private) parties, hidden in the dark, or at a mystery dinner party.

Sagittarius
You’re the global type, Sagittarius, so the world is your oyster. Look for your love in far away, exotic locations, airports and international hotspots.

Capricorn
Tradition with a capital “T’. Though an arranged marriage might suit you best, Capricorn, lacking that, look for your mate at family gatherings and formal black-tie events. Or, just hire a matchmaker and get it done already.

Aquarius
Unusual? Well, yes, you are, so your search for love will be unlike anyone else’s. Once upon a time, you might have found love online, but you’re so cutting edge, you’ve probably moved beyond all that. Love in outer space? Alien love? Yep, that could be exactly how you meet your mate.

Pisces
Yes, we know, sensitive, imaginative and romantic. You’re practically too good for this world, Pisces, so your hunt for love should take place behind the scenes. Look for your mate at retreat centers, artist colonies and meditation events.